Mars Versus Venus, He Said She Said, Pink, Blue..etc. Sharing a space with your mate can be difficult. Decorating a space with your mate can be grounds for separation. Here are a few tips to keep in mind when decorating your living room with your special someone. 1. It's His Idea. You know what you want. However, introduce your concept of the living room as if you have come up with it together. Let him explain his ideas, for now. Just get the ball rolling on the project